Essays and observations from my freelance column, mostly about lesbian/gay/bi issues.

WHO WE ARE Are you "queer"? The l-word or the L-word? Including Bisexuals Choosing to be gay Showing My True Colors	HOW WE LIVE A gay code of conduct? Happy Valentines Day? Turning 30	THE COMMUNITIES WE BUILD The Undiscovered Country "There's Nothing To Do Around Here" Forget "Just Say No"... Just Do It! It Never Rains on Gay Pride
THE POLITICAL ARENA "You Can't Hurry Love" Did We Win? So Many Ideas... So Little Time Biting the Bullet Gaysinthemilitary Another 10% Heard From	FAMILY VALUES The Quilt: Why Uncle Jim Living in Sin? my boyfriend's recovery	CULTURE Lynn Lavner and Romanovsky & Phillips Fried Green Tomatoes and Basic Instinct Beek's Books: reviews of les/bi/gay comics
INS & OUTS National Coming Out Day: Missing the Point? What Good Is an "In" President? Closets in the Network What's In A Name?	Get an Adult Check ID for access to erotica on the web Comments?	Learn more about the writer. Learn more about the writer's boyfriend. © Todd VerBeek